Spirit Whispers: Converging energies… Yehhhhaaa!

Good grief, the energy is moving so fast and so quick at the moment, I feel like blogging or snippets from Spirit are on the wind of change before people have had a chance to catch up!

So before I embark on letting you know what’s in store for next year.  Lets roll out the carpet on finishing and finalising this one as much as we can!       Most people I have talked to are looking forward to the end of this year.  2019, you coy manipulator you (in the best possible way) have maneuvered people into addressing their stuff.   All stuff… the three energies we are now in until Christmas are, drum roll…

  1. Declutter mode…
  2. Relationship energy..
  3. Truthful clarity

Man, that push to unpack our issues is soooo strong and it will create an interesting 6 weeks with Christmas in the middle of that one…  Sing it with me, Joy to the World.  Wellllll, not quite.     Its actually more like a horse race with you in the middle..

How does it go, “Pride in the back straight, heartaches going to the inside, my tears are holding back, trying not to fall….”  In all honesty this energy it a lot like that.   Declutter demands that you let go of all that does not serve you and it starts with you first.  Your annoyances with others will go through the roof firstly, as YOU are changing not them.  Or them as quickly as you.  You have turned up for others in very accommodating ways and all of a sudden you will not want to.  Don’t be surprised when others throw a wobbly that you are not being who you usually are.   Cries of “I’m done” are echoing across the airways at the moment as that energy filters into the next one which is relationship energy.

Now relationship energy is about how YOU turn up for yourself with other people.  So if you have been self sacrificing yourself for years, expect to suddenly and I mean suddenly sit in resentment of other people’s expectations of you.   It may be extremely hard to think that you have turned up for them in this way for years and its YOU that has changed.   There are relationship break ups all over the show at the moment in the most unexpected ways.  All of this is part of the declutter, relationship, truthful clarity energy but most are not seeing it coming and are hurt and disillusioned with what is happening.  Annnnnnnnnnnd cue Christmas…   “Once more into the fray…”

Blinks rapidly, yup…  Now I know that you can say Christmas is always challenging with family dynamics, after all you incarnate with them for the best of your ermmm hard learning about who you want to be.  However, add the last ingredient of the energy which is “truthful clarity” and the last of the decluttering comes into play.   All of those smothered retorts, hurt feelings and senses of duty, putting up with bad behaviours etc comes to the fore as the truth of the matter is revealed.  The truth is you will want to say what you think.   LIKE NEVER BEFORE.   Christmas recipe of that lot = Nightmare.

Soooo how you need to deal with this energy is with love and honesty.

  1.  Start to look at your own needs.   All those who do guilt so beautifully… PACK IT UP and SHIP IT OUT.  What a worthless emotion to take into the New Year.   I don’t hear anyone saying here feel guilty about not helping me.  If you don’t feel like it DON’T do it.  Don’t justify, if you don’t want to bend, be HONEST.
  2. Relationship energy..  For goodness sake communicate!!!  No one is a mind reader seriously.  If you don’t say you are feeling sad, you have needs, and could your partner, spouse, co-worker listen to how you feel?  Say its not about them, its how YOU feel.   Be as kind and honest as possible.  With yourself first and then THEM.
  3. Truthfulness is in many, many forms.  If you going to slap people with truthful clarity then EXPECT them to react.  Some nice accommodating person for years suddenly goes rogue.. Hell, I’d be looking at you as a rhino on the rampage too.  Try at least to say what you think without blurting out years and years of hurts, and slights.  Say “this doesn’t suit me, this is what would”.

We are all being hit with this energy that can bring so many changes and instant ones at that.   Bring it back to a better balance in emotional self.  Acknowledge it…  Then start with you and that allow ability will empower you to make more and more of the changes.  They are after all great ones.  We are heading to 2020 which brings in perfect 20/20 visions of where we are looking at going but not before we declutter this old stuff… Do it and do it well and we come out shinier into the New Year.

Now is the perfect time to be looking at what is happening as January brings in some more uplifts as we head more into 7D energies… wheeee its a ride and unpacking the accumulated dramas now will be well worth whats coming.

Keep an eye out for the next blog which will be “The Art of Doing” which will help all you decluttering, thinking that your Mojo is gone, people get back into feeling like a human being…  You never lost your Mojo you just lost your suffering, but that’s a whole other blog.

If you choose to have a fabulous Christmas, follow my lead.  Quality time and quantity time with those you love, the rest, quick grabs of quality time, NOT quantity.  Two hours with someone who annoys you will rapidly bring out the convergence…  Pace yourself, flying visits are better than nothing and can save you heart ache!!!




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Spirit Whispers: Oh July.. The Catalyst Month

Crikey, Spirit have been pestering me and pestering me to write this blog post.  In fact, I’m horrified how long it has been since I have blogged.   I have seen so many wonderful people and that has taken up time, a lot of time.  Everyone is in concentration mode this year sorting old baggage, old habits, behaviours and since we entered the Age of Accountability 8 months ago, man have our tolerances SHIFTED!

Sometimes the divide in understanding becomes so evident with Universal Changes and challenges.   The Age of Accountability brings in a soul level shift of wanting those around you to step up and take ownership of their own emotional and physical needs.  Its very confronting for everyone.  The Carer Souls who have been bending over backwards to accommodate and those soul aspects leaning into them.  There’s a lot of noses out of joint at the moment! Makes me think of that quote “We fight to hold on, we fight to let go”.    Remember to be kind, everyone is impacted by this energy and there is a A LOT of shifts.   Denial is central as people try NOT to take the accountability the Universe is asking them to and the Avoiders? Hell, they are running for the hills, bless them ♥

When we were going to roll over into July, Spirit said to me “Oh its a Catalyst month”, I was “ohhhh that doesn’t sound good?”   Trust my paranoia to be amplified after the last 6 months of DECLUTTER, RELATIONSHIPS, and TRUTHFUL CLARITY energies!   Those three energies have had a field day! and they are continuing to go through to August, be aware!

Declutter:  Tidy up, streamline, get rid of old baggage, physical junk and old friendships that are not serving you.  Jobs, homes, people anything that is too heavy to carry forward! (Be aware, you either do it or the Universe will!)

Relationships: For every relationship you are turning up in that is out of balance to your needs, be it friends, neighbours, acquaintances, family.   You will feel completely over the imbalance and want them to see where they are not turning up fairly!  In comes….

Truthful Clarity: In this energy you will be wanting to get the POINT ACROSS!  Be aware  its your thoughts and point of view though! Not anyone elses, so please please be assertive but KIND! (Even though your tolerances may be shot).

So while all of this has been going on, in comes JULY.   Sheesh!  So the crunch with this month is ILLUMINATION CENTRAL!    Any space where you are NOT looking after you will be illuminated this month in whatever way it needs to be.  I’m always wary when they say Catalyst (seriously what kind of word is that?)


Learn to pronounce
  1. a substance that increases the rate of a chemical reaction without itself undergoing any permanent chemical change.
    “chlorine acts as a catalyst promoting the breakdown of ozone”
    • a person or thing that precipitates an event.
      “the prime minister’s speech acted as a catalyst for debate”

Goodness, all of that sounds like CHANGE! and instant change!   However,  catalysts come when we are also kidding ourselves that everything is okay and we are skating along the top of our lives trying to avoid the obvious issues and problems that we know are there but would rather someone else magically took them away.

Anyhoooooooooo, back to July.  This is a heads up people, catalysts are really sudden blasts of energy to blow open situations and understanding to make you shift what you have been avoiding.  Now they can be positive or negative, that’s entirely where YOU come in!   Seriously, humans beings (bless every one of you) are fantastic avoiders of things they worry about.   Please do not do this in July.  Find your brave, find your feet and don’t feel like the Universe is picking on you.  It isn’t truthfully, its empowering you to find your IDENTITY in who you are, in every moment of your life.  People are just there to help you realise what you need to do for you.  Situations and people do that. It’s why you are here!   These experiences are yours and uniquely yours!

We are actively working on IDENTITY at the moment as well right through to October.  (Seriously I could spend hours on blogs at the moment in this quick fire change energy!)  Identity is not your JOB, nor your family (you get to learn from those!) Nor your relationship, or house.  Its YOU and how you turn up for you.  The push from the Universe in order for you to live, breathe, love your beautiful life, is to BE FULLY present as the REAL YOU.   Don’t know who that is?  Well identity energy will be kicking your butt at the moment then!   Get real, talk to yourself, look at your fun element and come back to saying what do I need to provide for me??

July, you wonderful, extreme, illuminating month you…. Look out world, we are busting out of habits and behaviours this month… Don’t do it the hard way… Learn, love, grow and let GO of what no longer serves your bursting to be free soul!    Just remember to breathe……





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Spirit Whispers: Identity – Who are you?

Goodness, time just flies when you are having fun, or rather time just flies full stop doesn’t it.  The last couple of years have been so daunting for people in general as I have worked with people whose worlds have fallen apart and they have been presented with new opportunities.  Doing that is hard work, and it makes time just disappear.

One of the most confronting things to happen, particularly to the Carer Souls, whose mission has been down here to look after the many, in many cases at the cost of themselves, has been the collapse of their “regular” worlds.    I need to step back a bit and explain to those who have not been as aware.

In 2018, it was the start of the new Global philosophy, “Create to be”, this new energy has been building very quietly in the background away from the old “Suffer to learn” philosophy.  However, we are slow learners and we love to hold to our habits and behaviours that we have either been programmed with or accepted as our lot in life.  The shift has been subtle.   You feel like you don’t want to run around after people anymore, you are feeling frustrated that people expect too much from you and you are tired.  Then about 8 months ago, a bigger shift came in as we entered the Age of Accountability.  Then your thinking would have really started to shift completely.  The Carer Souls started to really say “NO” and pull back from being overly responsible in all ways.

This is all as is should be as the changes are LIVE, BREATHE, your beautiful life.  It is so important that we have self accountability and self-approval to be who we need to be for us.  However, as Carer Souls these habits of looking after others are at levels of lifetimes and deep, deep programming.  Stepping away from people is hard, and makes so many of them feel they have failed.  Feel guilty at not being there for people but also instantly resentful at the same time.  This shift is real and very confusing.  It has heralded a huge amount of people across my pathway struggling and its a very real struggle, simply because after so many years of being there for others, they have no idea what so ever about who they are.

I have been asked for years and years by people, what is my purpose.   Now it has changed in the last 12 months to “Who am I?”    Carer Souls deeply feel in a lot of cases that their identity of being here for people has removed their purpose.  However, this could never be more wrong.  Your role just changed and the most important person in your life is now you.  Well, to be honest you are the most important person in your life, but you put you last….

The Universe is an impartial equalizer and every aspect of your life that has been out of balance for your needs has been under inspection and change.  It is hard to NOT feel picked on by this especially when the Carer Souls have done so much for others as well.  But the point is this, YOU always were so very important, you just forgot about you in helping others.   You haven’t actually lost your identity at all you are redefining who you are and you are here to do what you love.  Now when I explain this to all you beautiful people you do one thing.  You wail “I don’t know what I love”.    Errmmmm that’s the whole point, having been slaving over keeping others happy, fulfilled and ticking along, OF COURSE you don’t.

Identity was never WHAT you did, it is who you are.   How can you know who you are when you are distracted and busy doing for others?  The sum total of you was never what you do for others.  The sum total of you is YOU.  You don’t even know you.   You are re-purposing you, reassembling you, figuring out you and everything around you will have changed so you can do this.    You are a re-educator, you are here now to re-educate people on how to live, breathe and have your beautiful life and guess what?   You get to start with YOU.  You get to find out how to love your life, be IN your life in a fully present way and you have to cut yourself some slack.   This is new learning and it is so very important that you invest the time into you.  THEN and only then will you be able to love your life so much that others will say I want to have a life like that too.   That’s your mission, that’s the change.  Lead by your own example.

Now I can still hear people wailing “I don’t even know how to do that!”   Of course you don’t!   You need to do the exact opposite of everything you usually do.  You have been doing that for so long you have no idea how to do it differently but every time you go to do the same thing, that bubbling frustrated resentment is on you like white on rye!

Implement the pause, seriously.  Pause and go, Hmmz I feel that resentment, I know why I am feeling that, I will say no this time.  I will change things this time, I will speak my mind.  I will give myself permission to say that’s not okay for me, doesn’t work for me.  I will celebrate my own recognition of MY needs and be okay with that.  You are changing the world, and you are starting with you.   Now Carer Souls love to make everything tidy, nice, sorted for everyone else… Hmmz you gotta learn to let it be messy, untidy, unfinished.  You weren’t born with a cape on, time to stop trying to save the world single handed.

To make things easier for yourself and stop you getting so disillusioned.  Think of it this way, you have to “Honour someone else’s journey”   They incarnated here to have THEIR journey.  You didn’t incarnate here to do that for them!  You have to let people have their own journey.  You have a Carer Soul perspective about how to make their lives easier, however, its your own perspective and its THEIR life and learning to do it their way.  Consider this, you may just be enabling some of their behaviour in doing too much for them! and in the mean time exhausting you.  Keep doing that, keep exhausting you and the Universe will bring in multi level learning at a health level so you learn your own importance.  Don’t be doing that either, you only have one body and you need to look after you first with it!    Where have you turned up in life doing things for others soooo much that you forgot about you.   I expect many, many places, which is the reason for this blog.

All I want you to do is understand.  TIME is important and you are done… Done doing it all for others, the Universe wants you to be fully present, loving your beautiful life and you with your love, your empathy and your compassion are just the person it needs to re-educate others on loving their beautiful life and learning how to create it.  Teach them well, but start with you first.   FIND what you love to do just for you.  Go DO that, make it a life, a job, a career but FIND it… then once you have done that, others will follow your lead.  Be brave, be kind, be strong.  You always were, so BE YOU.


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Spirit Whispers: Switching thinking…

Happy New Year Gorgeous people!  It’s funny how we think we will just jump out of one year and all the frequency will change and be better.  However,  any music abruptly stopped and restarted causes us discord so why on earth would the Universe do that with frequency either.

We are still on the last of the 2018 energy which has been illuminating how much our needs have changed.  This energy is asking us to de-clutter.  De-clutter unhealthy work habits, patterns, friendships, relationships that are bound by duty not integrity or passion.  2018 you rascally year, you have been so very illuminating in so many ways our tolerances towards each other and ourselves.

The three energy converging at Christmas time were Relationship energy, de-clutter energy, truthful clarity energy, we really got some home truths reflected through others about what serves us and what does not.   It was brilliantly designed to be illuminating.  For those who got it, you understood the changes came from within you.  For others you felt ripped off that other people didn’t see your needs and understand your point of view.  Confusing times mostly for most of the population as we struggled with where we were yelling “I’m done” and “You are being difficult”.

Mostly this energy is still flickering in waves to cement within us where our tolerances are  but please also remember this.  If the beef was with friendships, partners and family, it was because where you have always turned up for others in a way that never served YOU personally.  It all just came to a head in 2018 with quite a few tantrums on the floor, severed relationships and judgement being thrown around like mud pies.

We all got to look at our behavior and with the underlying Universal shift 7 months ago into the Age of Accountability there was going to be no other place that the buck stopped but within ourselves.   Now we know human nature and that some people cannot see their own accountability and you know what they are not meant to.  It’s not why they came.  Forcing others to see their lack of accountability in this energy will totally dis-empower you and make you feel like you are the villain of the piece and the point is we never take accountability unless WE choose to.   It’s easy to sit in judgement of behavior of people, especially if you think they are opposite to yours.   However, we are in communication central people, and expectations, and judgement are all just a perception anyway.  The way through this next stage is totally truthful clarity, being 100% honest in your needs, both in self and with others with kindness.  We are reteaching ourselves compassion as well.    The Age of Accountability says it is not what you think, it is what you feel and this is the major shift we are entering now.

Rational mind is a wonderful thing.  It can override emotions, it can override intuition and convince you that you need to do this thing.  However, your heart can be so not in it.  An example would be going out for dinner with the in-laws that you don’t like and saying yes of course, when every part of your being is going please no I just can’t.   Those emotional pulls are going to increase until we continue into alignment of body, mind and spirit and mostly we are still governed by mind.

What if I said this to you (which how Spirit explained it to me).   You are heading back to becoming telepathic.  However, in the current form of communication there is too much deceit.  Rarely do you say exactly what you mean because you convince yourself that you will be too harsh or too mean with the words.  However, your body has already sensed HOW YOU FEEL.  It has already started responding on the basis of how you feel.  So then you have to doubly “cloak” your actions and words so that the person does not get the impact of your reaction.    This is not an alignment that is healthy.  Yet you have learned how to do it.

How many times do children get chastised for what they say, or do when in reality they are just following how they feel?   Do you really think as an adult you are any different?  You just got more inventive, or learned to be more inventive in cloaking your truthful self.  However, in hiding your truth, you feel uncomfortable.  Convince yourself you are a mean, selfish person and hold unhealthy expectations on yourself about who you should be.   The Universe is tired of this illusional alignment.  It does not empower you to live and breathe your beautiful truthful life.    So you are being pulled at a soul level into your “emotional” truth rather than your “logic truth or programming”.    We did tell you that you would be heading into more heart based energies.  Heart energy is how you feel.  This is a natural progression.  You are merely fighting with the uncomfortability of being accountable for your emotional states vs rational mind.    We suggest you get used to this uncomfortable feeling of having to acknowledge your feelings as the Universe swings more into this accountability energy of empowering your emotional states.

The key behind all of this understanding is that in alignment, you will have no thoughts that cannot be spoken.    You talk to people, explain the process is the solution and so this process of bringing you emotional awareness unlike you have experienced before will be empowering you into a more balanced way of feeling and thinking.    At the moment because this is a new way of thinking, through your emotions.  You are see-sawing through all of the emotional roller coaster of that uncomfortability at the moment.  Do not think you are flawed, nor (which makes us laugh gently) hormonal (any excuse is given by the rational mind).   You are simply being empowered into emotional states to give you back the balance in self you have desperately been seeking.     Your accountability in this new age, is your emotional balances for YOU within you.

Self care, self love, self appreciation, this your accountability and as you do this in self, you learn to accept and honour it in others. (Thanks Spirit).

We are switching, people… we are wanting to stop over thinking everything and we want a simpler, happier state of being.   I have seen so many people over the break who have just said I want no drama, I want to be happy, I want peace.   Well, we need to give that back to selves first and then  we will not need the illuminated learning coming from others and long-term in our honesty we will not have these destructive thoughts directed at self and others either.   Telepathy here we come…

The switch is happening regardless.  Do yourself a favour, if your thoughts are dropping out and you are intolerant with others about your needs not being met.  Stop looking at them.  Start looking at you and start working with giving yourself permission first to be just you.  Every time your mind says “YOU need” come back to is my “Heart in this?”   Then empower you with that knowledge.   We are in this together, let’s do this!



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Spirit Whispers: Truthful Clarity, the game changer…

I love that there is constant change, but I had to learn that one.   The quote goes “we fight to hold on, we fight to let go” and boy do we fight.  Mostly with ourselves I might add and we simply project at times onto others and the fight goes on.

Think of yourselves as a moving, constantly adjusting piece of symphonic music.  A constant adjustment to chords, pitch, layer, rhythm.  Human beings are like that, a moving master piece of music.  I mean imagine if you had to listen to the same piece of music over and over again.  The first couple of times you think “ohhh I love this song” and listen delightedly.   Play it another couple of times and its starting to wane in its beauty, and predictability.  You still love it but your ears are kinda craving some new tones.   Listen to it for too long and the darn thing starts to irritate the hell out of you no matter how much you loved it in the beginning.

That is simply what happens when we hold ourselves in the same frequency, same learning, same conditioning.  We become bored, irritated with our lives and bundle into resentment of everyone else around us when actually what is required is an adjustment to ourselves within ourselves.

I love this new energy coming in, but many do not as it brings brilliant illumination and then change.  Lovely change.   In the layering of the Universe, we have moved into the Age of Accountability (welllllll yes, it was always about you) and with deep chords of Relationship with Self energy, then higher pitch notes of Expectations collapsing, subtle middle tones of Illumination of Boundaries,  sharp pings of Frustration, Resentment and Intolerance as the illumination spikes.  Then WHAM out your mouth will fall Truthful Clarity.

Under the Societal programming of not really saying what you think… which by the way never serves you and makes you feel taken advantage of.  Truthful Clarity shines with its pure notes.    See it is simply this, the Universe is trying to make us think, speak, be in perfect harmonic alignment.  Smothering your needs, thoughts and feelings, never ever fitted into that beautiful plan and because we are soooooo good at doing that because we got taught to put our own needs last, of course the Universe was going to bring in Truthful Clarity energy.

Loving it yet?   Didn’t think so.  It’s a tad confronting until you get used to what it represents for you.   You may find that things are plopping out your mouth rudely at the moment or you are pinging yourself into guilt plus feelings because when someone pushed your boundaries, you grumped… or not just grumped but blew a valve… o.O

We have got to start being gentler with ourselves seriously.   If you are ignoring the energy changes because you don’t know what is happening, please realise this.  This energy is affecting everyone, not just you.    As I said in earlier blogs, I am hearing “I’m done.  I’m over this.” and you know what, that’s okay.  Well done you for recognising you are at the end of that particular musical piece you were living and breathing.

Time for some realisation you were getting sick of it and now adding some new notes and chords to your story.   Truthful clarity is your new best friend if you bring in kindness and understanding to self and then give that to others.  Biting heads off others for their own lack of understanding never worked and brings you into feeling picked on and isolated.  BE HONEST.    I’m feeling this way… you would be surprised HOW many people are feeling it too.   In our honest dealings with others with love about our own feelings, and our acceptance of sharing, we find our way through this completely.

Heads up, we just entered it and its here for the next 5-6 months…  He he he… Right over Christmas and those feelings that Christmas brings up in torn loyalties, senses of duty, and forced cohabitation with relatives you may not like.   Hmmz, I’m not laughing really but the Universe it brings with it such wonderful opportunities to illuminate where we are not turning up for ourselves and forcing ourselves into situations where we lie to ourselves about what we are doing.

Hell I could pin a tail of that mischievousness and call it a weasel…  Sorry, bad Blackadder pun..   But, think about it carefully beautiful people, and start to bring thoughts and feelings and EXPRESSION into alignment or the Universe will present more and more situations for you to get fully illuminated with Truthful Clarity.

Hey, it’s up to you and you can always blame someone else for their Truthful Clarity, but the way through it is to realise, adjust and surrender to the changes within and without.  We need to come back to understanding ourselves and others and sharing more how we are truthfully.   We live in a world where Depression is an ugly flower stuffed to the back of the vase, but the truth is, its still in the vase… It’s there no matter how much we ignore it, and it’s not going away until we bring it to the front and heal it with understanding and love.

Just have a think for me, for five minutes please.  HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU SMOTHER HOW YOU FEEL? WHAT YOU WANT DESPERATELY TO SAY?    You keep doing that and you lose the ability and the words to say it.   Why are we doing this to ourselves, this constant pressure.  The Universe heard and its responding and its starting the process of change.  Time to get real, to drop judgements and recriminations, and bring things back to love.  Its time, it’s over due and we are losing too many beautiful people in the expectation of being superhuman instead of plain old humans with thoughts, feelings, doubts and insecurities.

EMBRACE TRUTHFUL CLARITY AND GET EXPRESSING… with love, with kindness and with understanding.  We all need this energy and its NOW.

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Spirit Whispers: Entering the Age of Accountability..

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I think the problem with human nature is we just hate change.  However, the one thing I have noticed and I am sure everyone else has in their own way too.  Time they are a changing.  Driven by the Universe’s big plan for us all, energy and frequency keeps on a moving.

We have been transitioning through Relationship energy over the last 10 months.  Relationship energy is really governed by our relationship with ourselves reflected through others.   Loving the illumination that is coming through others at the moment (wonders if the sarcasm is a bit obvious in that sentence).  However, it is necessary.  Basically in all your relationships whether they are family, friends, lovers or work colleagues, you will be shown how people expect you to turn up and where your unreasonable expectations of yourself are.  This will be on the basis of how you have turned up for everyone in the past and trust me, I don’t think you will have been liking it.

I have had so many gorgeous people going “What am I doing wrong?  I bend and I bend and it’s still not enough.”   Well it actually is enough, you are enough.  The Universe is just showing you that bending yourself, contorting yourself for others doesn’t serve you.  Not a bit and hey I have had this argument with myself as well.   Do I have to become selfish?

No, it is not that at all.  Sacrificing yourself to keep others happy never served you and it has nothing at all to do with selfish, but rather selfless.  (See previous blogs)  Still if you have had this habit for a lifetime.  It will feel really confronting to look at where you are continuing to behave in a way that doesn’t work for you.  I mean literally everyone will show you by making you feel like you are being taken advantage of.  I walked around thinking I had “doormat” on my forehead for ages until I realized something.

“I have literally trained people to believe I am available for their needs all the time”

Gawd, that was mega confronting and it was simply what the Universe was trying to show me.  Bless it, through a myriad of different people and in different ways.  So it was back to the “Oh gawd it IS me” again and then putting in healthier measures to re-establish the balance my soul desperately needed so I could stop jumping into judgement of them (myself really) and frustration.   Bless the Universe, it’s really trying so hard all the time to get us to look at ourselves through others actions and our own.

So just when we are doing that, along comes the “Age of Accountability”.   Talk about onion rings and multi level learning and I can hear you say wait what?  Aren’t we in relationship energy as well?   Yeah well, errmm yes, its kinda a “let’s do the whole hog”.. Can be summed up as follows…

  1.  Enter Relationships with Self Energy reflected from others… 10 months and counting before
  2. 5 Planet retrogrades to make you really look at your “stuff”
  3. Enter the “Age of Accountability” 6 months ago .. No running from yourself with that one…
  4. Drum roll…. Now “Truthful Clarity” for the next 5 months…

Seriously, why not have a complete clear out of family, friendships, go through the washing machine of planetary alignments,  realise its ALL about you and be annoyed where people can’t take accountability for their own crap least of all yourself, and then fall into yelling some home truths at everyone AND yourself…

Ahhhh Universe we looooooooove you!

All of it is for your own good.  It is the end of the “Age of Illusions” people and thank GAWD for that really.   Everyone is tired of putting on a mask, turning up in ways when we don’t want to.  But the Age of Accountability also starts with US.   Do you really take accountability for your own actions?   When you are being a plonker and you know you are, do you blame a situation for causing it?   A person for triggering you?   Them for being well, them?

We are wonderful at believing and I mean believing that its someone else’s fault that we feel like crap.  But if the Universe is responding all the time to US and ALL of us are in it together, then it’s ALL our crap… Combined, in little crappy formats just for our own brains…

Universal CRAP…  That is overdue to be cleared away, so in truthful clarity we can… drum roll again… be ourselves!!   What is that?  I dunno, I struggle to be honest enough with myself about what I need before I am distracting myself again with stuff to do, for another, for others, for my kids.   OMG I’m a Crapologist…  I have filled my life up with little bits of crappy things that annoy the hell out of me, because I don’t take the time to listen to myself at all.  Queen of Distraction… or Crapola…

Now if you are reading this and going… OMG I am a Crapologist too…  Well done, we are after all in this together and to be perfectly honest it’s not all crappy.  It is simply where we need to realise that it ALL starts with US.  Not the job, the husband, the kids, the weather, the bloody planets… its US.   Where we truthfully put our focus and attention is the reality of who we are.   Its our life… We only GET ONE..

And before you go money makes the world go around, or I have to work, or look after the kids… Yes I get that, shock horror… SO DO I.   But you don’t have to sacrifice yourself completely in the DOING of it.   The Age of Accountability is where you step up in “truthful clarity” of WHY you are doing what you do, and OWNING it, if you want to, but be honest with it.   If you getting those pings of frustration or judging people for not doing enough in your own world.  Then its up to you… BE CLEAR, BE KIND, but be honest enough to decide if it suits you.

Last time I looked there was no gold medal issued for looking after the world single-handedly…   Collectively, sure we all make a difference, but making yourself sick, draining your energy, having no freedom, no enjoyment.  That’s crapola peoples, and you wanna take some accountability of self for allowing yourself to convince you, this is your life.

Every part of these changes coming in are designed to serve you, help you, empower you into your beautiful life.  BUT, you have to lead it.  Take accountability for where you are turning up, why you are doing that, and flipping heck, be honest with yourself.  It’s the end of the excuses and if “but” flies out your mouth?  Well HOWS that working for you.  Cause ain’t no-one going to come rescue you, until you look to your beautiful self and take accountability where you need to.

I’m loving dropping the crap, being honest and sitting in uncomfortable realisations that I have been striving for perfect for years.  I’m not, actually I don’t want to be.  I’m untidy, messy, lazy and weird.  Maybe that’s my superpowers…  Best I start owning them… How about yours?  What you wanna take accountability for?   and better?  How you wanna start turning up… as you are building the new foundations for your next 5 year investment into your life.  Make it a goodie, because in the Age of Accountability it will ALL be up to us…

*winks… How’s that working for ya?




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Spirit Whispers: Handing back the Ancestral Burdens

Hope you are all surviving the energy as much as possible.   We are massively on declutter mode at the moment and I asked Spirit to give me a technique that would help people to remove the Ancestral burdens that have been handed down through generations into our current personal stories.

So they came up with this technique which is both easy to envisage and a great place to start with the shifting of the old beliefs, energy, frustration and responsibility burdens that have been shifting through the generations and are now completely over due to be released.

So for you, Gorgeous Lights, give this technique a whirl.

Ancestral Burden Release:

Find a comfortable spot and take three breaths in and out, blowing out the energy of the day and releasing pent-up emotions.     Close your eyes and relax.   In your mind’s eye, I would like you to look down and see that your solar plexus is glowing like a small ember.  I would like you to empower that ember by asking that all of the burdens, ancestral and from past lives feed that ember, coming from the depths of your being and adding to the ember until it is a burning bright flame.   Add to the flame all of the feelings of duty, responsibility and wounded hurts of the past.    As it becomes brilliant and the size of a small orange.  I would like you to loving collect that flame from your solar plexus and place it into an old-fashioned black or iron lantern from yesteryear.

Notice how the flame easily came away from your solar plexus and completely fills the lantern brightly.   I would like you to ask for all the women on your Mum’s side of the family to help you through ancestral links to pass this light “wound” back through time to the space of its origin.   You will feel the movement as Spirit comes in to line up to collect what is no longer yours to carry for Spirit is aware as well, it is well overdue to let go of these carried burdens from the past.   You do not need to see the women, just look for the reaching pair of hands to take the lantern from you with love.

Handing the lantern with love to the first pair of hands that reach, please say the following.

“I take this light wound, this ancestral feminine burden that I have been carrying and I hand it to you, so you in turn can pass this back in time to the point of origin.  I give this light wound back with love, the burden no longer needing to be carrying but needing to be acknowledged through space and time, to return to the place of its conception.”

For each set of hands that reach out and take the lantern, please repeat the above.   You are for each wounded woman, acknowledging their role, their hurts and the burden that they too have carried and wish to give back.  You may find that it goes back more than four generations, keep repeating until the light goes to a pair of hands that will either extinguish the light, or it will snuff out.  In some people I have seen the lantern be thrown, smothered or even stamped out.   The point is it needs to go back to where it came from as it is no longer yours to carry.   It is their decision how they choose to extinguish the light wound not yours.

Now that the “light wound” has been extinguished I want you to ask for the help of the Angelics to fill the “hole” that has been left by the wound and you can simply do this by asking them the following.

“Divine Beings, Messengers of Divine light, I ask for you to help me, to fill my being with my divine purpose, light of love to replace the burdens that I have carried for so long.  I ask that I am filled with the light of the highest of love, filling my centre, healing my ancestral wound. So be it”

Envisage yourself being filled with light to the centre of your solar plexus and flowing throughout your whole being.   Thank the Angelics for their blessed role and allow yourself a couple of days for your energy to settle again.  You have been carrying this for a very long time and it may take a couple of days for you to resettle in yourself.

If you feel also you have carried burdens from both sides, male and female.  Please feel free to hand these burdens back all around.   I would not suggest doing everyone at once for your own energetic sake, but just who you are drawn to at the time.  Allowing time for your energy to settle is crucial but also as crucial is the recognition in self, and let yourself be led by this as to whether it is the masculine, or feminine energies of family connections that carry the most burdens.

If you choose to do the masculine sides of your family tree, by all means change the wording to the following and then repeat with the Angelic blessing for wholeness.

“I take this light wound, this ancestral masculine burden that I have been carrying and I hand it to you, so you in turn can pass this back in time to the point of origin.  I give this light wound back with love, the burden no longer needing to be carrying but needing to be acknowledged through space and time, to return to the place of its conception.”

I have hesitated a bit in putting up this technique as I totally believe that it is free choice to remove burdens that you may or may not be aware of.  However, remember this in this de-cluttering energy, that it truthfully may be time to acknowledge so much of what you carry in your belief structures, programmed experiences, understanding and even lives you have had before, can at times hold us back from giving ourselves the freedom to be ourselves.   We are like onions, we have so many layers and permission of self to free self is so very crucial and important.   I leave therefore, your choice around this technique to your own soul wisdom to choose as you see fit.

One of the benefits I have seen from this technique is that it works through space and time forwards as well as backwards, and it takes the burden inadvertently passed from children as well.   Not their life choices, nor their own learning, but any ancestral linkage that may no longer be required.

Please as ever look after yourselves as lovingly as possible in this shifting energy and let me know how you get on.





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