Wow, at times when people get busy on the earth plane, time can really, really fly! Kind of feel like apologising for not blogging but the one thing about a human life journey is that no matter how spiritual you are or in my case how much I try and float above the planet, there is always earth plane stuff to pull your focus back to being totally present in your life.
The balance is always knowing that you can be Spiritually active within your human life at the same time everything else is going on. Even though I may be preoccupied with the earth plane stuff, the Guides and Angelics are working everyday with their wisdom and advice. So remember if the going gets tough, your support crew is still right there with you helping as much as they possibly can as you work through to clarity.
Feeling stuck, ask for an Angelic hug. There is nothing like the feeling of being encased in warm wings as they wrap around you and the feeling of being loved, calm and belonging is out of this world. Give it a try ♥
Anyhoo back to the blog subject! We are slap bang in the middle of relationship energy at the moment and it is truthfully governed by the relationship that you have with yourself.
I am getting so many people across my doorstep who are being so affected by this energy as the Universe simply squeezes on us to release all those old belief systems and unharmonious thought patterns that we have within ourselves. The problem is when the Universe, bless it, does this, it can make us even more avoid ourselves than we usually do and when that happens we “project” our stuff outwards onto other people. Hell, its so much easier to blame someone else isn’t it? When we do this we cannot see that it is actually a denial of the unhealed aspects of ourselves and its making us crash and burn within relationships with partners and people we may have been connected with for years and years.
At times we all desperately want to be understood by others, and yet we rarely understand ourselves or give the same degree of support and love we need from us first. Projecting our frustration outwards can cause the demise of something that was really good but leaves you wondering what exactly went wrong when the relationship suddenly goes sour after years.
That means a lot of dejected people after the initial break down of communication, we quite often turn things back on ourselves and get quite dejected that the Universe has now turned tables on ourselves and we feel like we are back to square one again trying to sort out both our feelings and what the heck happened and simply where to from here. This first stage of reflection past that dejected feeling (which by the way is completely normal as your ego wants to continually blame something or someone else), is to reflect on what happened. If you have evolved enough in yourself to see that you are an equal part of the Universal equation in all your relationships and connections, you see why you felt that way. Often this is too late for the current catalyst effect, BUT you grew and you learned and you decided what you would settle for and what you would not.
It is crucial at this stage to NOT start building regrets either about the other person or yourself, in reflection you always get to see what you could have done differently and therein lies the truth of the earth plane. It is always about choice with you in the centre of those choices. If you can cut yourself some slack and see aspects of you needed to heal and grow, you can then move forward into other connections armed with more knowledge about why you react the way you do and you see it was never about the other person but just growth. So Connection becomes a more loving and wiser process. That’s if you work it through with love and compassion for yourself, others and the learning that was involved.
This energy Spirit calls at the moment is the “Unlearning”, when OLD, OLD habits and behaviours, insecurities and suspicions are rising like bubbles in a glass of water within you to be released and healed. The big push through to February (Don’t groan) is about releasing and healing, forgiving and growing and what better way to really truthfully address our stuff through our closest and most personal relationships.
We don’t often see that we are both the cause and the solution to our own growth, but there is no need to continually blame external situations either. Down here on the earth plane, its is sooooooooo important to be loving yourself, forgiving yourself and letting go of old stuff so you can evolve. I simply LOVE what a beautiful man in Spirit said to me the other day and I will share it with you.
“On the earth plane it’s so easy to get caught up in stuff that isn’t even yours. Lose yourself off your path and into the bushes, stumble over obstacles and rocks and completely miss the point of being. That’s the whole purpose. Being. You get to love yourself in totally new ways by experiences that force you to look at who you want to be and become. It IS all about you, with others helping you to see that. If you sit in the bushes moaning about your load and all the stubbed toes it sure makes you a miserable git. Wish I had of simplified things, appreciated people more, thanked the people who I thought were idiots for teaching me to be me and just loved more. Hindsight, huh, buggar. My advice would be to forgive yourself first for just being down there to learn and then love people for making your life interesting!”
I have Lao behind me with a hand on my shoulder, this lovely Chinese guide who is teaching me the Art of Being and so much so I understand that in this Unlearning, a lot of it is learning to let go of the Judgement of Self we have carried for so long and learning also to stop judging others.
So take a moment to think. What are you projecting onto others that is actually yours. Where is your dejection you think this always happens to you? and actively move more into reflection of wisdom because beyond that is a new way of connection with both yourself, others and the Universe. We are getting lighter people, growing and changing, time to release stuff. Also as an aside, all those annoying little twinges and problems that have you racing off to the Doctor in this energy, that is your body also trying at a cellular level to help you release all your cell baggage too. You are energy condensed into matter, and your matter is also responding to the need to Unlearn. So start loving your hurt bits, get in appreciation of your body and stop resenting it and start listening to it in where you have hidden old stuff in it that needs to be released and flow through the processes.
After all, we are all in this together and with the passing of this Universal Year of Implementation, we are moving into a Universal Year of Freedom, this means you gotta shed the baggage of the heavy you so you can embrace your year of freedom to be the real you. Now (smiles at Lao) is absolutely perfect!