Happy New Year Gorgeous people! It’s funny how we think we will just jump out of one year and all the frequency will change and be better. However, any music abruptly stopped and restarted causes us discord so why on earth would the Universe do that with frequency either.
We are still on the last of the 2018 energy which has been illuminating how much our needs have changed. This energy is asking us to de-clutter. De-clutter unhealthy work habits, patterns, friendships, relationships that are bound by duty not integrity or passion. 2018 you rascally year, you have been so very illuminating in so many ways our tolerances towards each other and ourselves.
The three energy converging at Christmas time were Relationship energy, de-clutter energy, truthful clarity energy, we really got some home truths reflected through others about what serves us and what does not. It was brilliantly designed to be illuminating. For those who got it, you understood the changes came from within you. For others you felt ripped off that other people didn’t see your needs and understand your point of view. Confusing times mostly for most of the population as we struggled with where we were yelling “I’m done” and “You are being difficult”.
Mostly this energy is still flickering in waves to cement within us where our tolerances are but please also remember this. If the beef was with friendships, partners and family, it was because where you have always turned up for others in a way that never served YOU personally. It all just came to a head in 2018 with quite a few tantrums on the floor, severed relationships and judgement being thrown around like mud pies.
We all got to look at our behavior and with the underlying Universal shift 7 months ago into the Age of Accountability there was going to be no other place that the buck stopped but within ourselves. Now we know human nature and that some people cannot see their own accountability and you know what they are not meant to. It’s not why they came. Forcing others to see their lack of accountability in this energy will totally dis-empower you and make you feel like you are the villain of the piece and the point is we never take accountability unless WE choose to. It’s easy to sit in judgement of behavior of people, especially if you think they are opposite to yours. However, we are in communication central people, and expectations, and judgement are all just a perception anyway. The way through this next stage is totally truthful clarity, being 100% honest in your needs, both in self and with others with kindness. We are reteaching ourselves compassion as well. The Age of Accountability says it is not what you think, it is what you feel and this is the major shift we are entering now.
Rational mind is a wonderful thing. It can override emotions, it can override intuition and convince you that you need to do this thing. However, your heart can be so not in it. An example would be going out for dinner with the in-laws that you don’t like and saying yes of course, when every part of your being is going please no I just can’t. Those emotional pulls are going to increase until we continue into alignment of body, mind and spirit and mostly we are still governed by mind.
What if I said this to you (which how Spirit explained it to me). You are heading back to becoming telepathic. However, in the current form of communication there is too much deceit. Rarely do you say exactly what you mean because you convince yourself that you will be too harsh or too mean with the words. However, your body has already sensed HOW YOU FEEL. It has already started responding on the basis of how you feel. So then you have to doubly “cloak” your actions and words so that the person does not get the impact of your reaction. This is not an alignment that is healthy. Yet you have learned how to do it.
How many times do children get chastised for what they say, or do when in reality they are just following how they feel? Do you really think as an adult you are any different? You just got more inventive, or learned to be more inventive in cloaking your truthful self. However, in hiding your truth, you feel uncomfortable. Convince yourself you are a mean, selfish person and hold unhealthy expectations on yourself about who you should be. The Universe is tired of this illusional alignment. It does not empower you to live and breathe your beautiful truthful life. So you are being pulled at a soul level into your “emotional” truth rather than your “logic truth or programming”. We did tell you that you would be heading into more heart based energies. Heart energy is how you feel. This is a natural progression. You are merely fighting with the uncomfortability of being accountable for your emotional states vs rational mind. We suggest you get used to this uncomfortable feeling of having to acknowledge your feelings as the Universe swings more into this accountability energy of empowering your emotional states.
The key behind all of this understanding is that in alignment, you will have no thoughts that cannot be spoken. You talk to people, explain the process is the solution and so this process of bringing you emotional awareness unlike you have experienced before will be empowering you into a more balanced way of feeling and thinking. At the moment because this is a new way of thinking, through your emotions. You are see-sawing through all of the emotional roller coaster of that uncomfortability at the moment. Do not think you are flawed, nor (which makes us laugh gently) hormonal (any excuse is given by the rational mind). You are simply being empowered into emotional states to give you back the balance in self you have desperately been seeking. Your accountability in this new age, is your emotional balances for YOU within you.
Self care, self love, self appreciation, this your accountability and as you do this in self, you learn to accept and honour it in others. (Thanks Spirit).
We are switching, people… we are wanting to stop over thinking everything and we want a simpler, happier state of being. I have seen so many people over the break who have just said I want no drama, I want to be happy, I want peace. Well, we need to give that back to selves first and then we will not need the illuminated learning coming from others and long-term in our honesty we will not have these destructive thoughts directed at self and others either. Telepathy here we come…
The switch is happening regardless. Do yourself a favour, if your thoughts are dropping out and you are intolerant with others about your needs not being met. Stop looking at them. Start looking at you and start working with giving yourself permission first to be just you. Every time your mind says “YOU need” come back to is my “Heart in this?” Then empower you with that knowledge. We are in this together, let’s do this!