Good grief, the energy is moving so fast and so quick at the moment, I feel like blogging or snippets from Spirit are on the wind of change before people have had a chance to catch up!
So before I embark on letting you know what’s in store for next year. Lets roll out the carpet on finishing and finalising this one as much as we can! Most people I have talked to are looking forward to the end of this year. 2019, you coy manipulator you (in the best possible way) have maneuvered people into addressing their stuff. All stuff… the three energies we are now in until Christmas are, drum roll…
- Declutter mode…
- Relationship energy..
- Truthful clarity
Man, that push to unpack our issues is soooo strong and it will create an interesting 6 weeks with Christmas in the middle of that one… Sing it with me, Joy to the World. Wellllll, not quite. Its actually more like a horse race with you in the middle..
How does it go, “Pride in the back straight, heartaches going to the inside, my tears are holding back, trying not to fall….” In all honesty this energy it a lot like that. Declutter demands that you let go of all that does not serve you and it starts with you first. Your annoyances with others will go through the roof firstly, as YOU are changing not them. Or them as quickly as you. You have turned up for others in very accommodating ways and all of a sudden you will not want to. Don’t be surprised when others throw a wobbly that you are not being who you usually are. Cries of “I’m done” are echoing across the airways at the moment as that energy filters into the next one which is relationship energy.
Now relationship energy is about how YOU turn up for yourself with other people. So if you have been self sacrificing yourself for years, expect to suddenly and I mean suddenly sit in resentment of other people’s expectations of you. It may be extremely hard to think that you have turned up for them in this way for years and its YOU that has changed. There are relationship break ups all over the show at the moment in the most unexpected ways. All of this is part of the declutter, relationship, truthful clarity energy but most are not seeing it coming and are hurt and disillusioned with what is happening. Annnnnnnnnnnd cue Christmas… “Once more into the fray…”
Blinks rapidly, yup… Now I know that you can say Christmas is always challenging with family dynamics, after all you incarnate with them for the best of your ermmm hard learning about who you want to be. However, add the last ingredient of the energy which is “truthful clarity” and the last of the decluttering comes into play. All of those smothered retorts, hurt feelings and senses of duty, putting up with bad behaviours etc comes to the fore as the truth of the matter is revealed. The truth is you will want to say what you think. LIKE NEVER BEFORE. Christmas recipe of that lot = Nightmare.
Soooo how you need to deal with this energy is with love and honesty.
- Start to look at your own needs. All those who do guilt so beautifully… PACK IT UP and SHIP IT OUT. What a worthless emotion to take into the New Year. I don’t hear anyone saying here feel guilty about not helping me. If you don’t feel like it DON’T do it. Don’t justify, if you don’t want to bend, be HONEST.
- Relationship energy.. For goodness sake communicate!!! No one is a mind reader seriously. If you don’t say you are feeling sad, you have needs, and could your partner, spouse, co-worker listen to how you feel? Say its not about them, its how YOU feel. Be as kind and honest as possible. With yourself first and then THEM.
- Truthfulness is in many, many forms. If you going to slap people with truthful clarity then EXPECT them to react. Some nice accommodating person for years suddenly goes rogue.. Hell, I’d be looking at you as a rhino on the rampage too. Try at least to say what you think without blurting out years and years of hurts, and slights. Say “this doesn’t suit me, this is what would”.
We are all being hit with this energy that can bring so many changes and instant ones at that. Bring it back to a better balance in emotional self. Acknowledge it… Then start with you and that allow ability will empower you to make more and more of the changes. They are after all great ones. We are heading to 2020 which brings in perfect 20/20 visions of where we are looking at going but not before we declutter this old stuff… Do it and do it well and we come out shinier into the New Year.
Now is the perfect time to be looking at what is happening as January brings in some more uplifts as we head more into 7D energies… wheeee its a ride and unpacking the accumulated dramas now will be well worth whats coming.
Keep an eye out for the next blog which will be “The Art of Doing” which will help all you decluttering, thinking that your Mojo is gone, people get back into feeling like a human being… You never lost your Mojo you just lost your suffering, but that’s a whole other blog.
If you choose to have a fabulous Christmas, follow my lead. Quality time and quantity time with those you love, the rest, quick grabs of quality time, NOT quantity. Two hours with someone who annoys you will rapidly bring out the convergence… Pace yourself, flying visits are better than nothing and can save you heart ache!!!